Myself, envy makes me feel mad, and I also become really passive-aggressive. I noted that whenever I became jealous, it felt like I was on the verge of tears like I had a lump in my throat and.
I’d these precise exact same feelings whenever We felt like We had failed, particularly in terms of my academics or job.
Realizing this helped me acknowledge than I am, because I equate my success to my worth that iâ€™m particularly jealous when my partner is interested in someone whoâ€™s more successful.
3. Address Heteronormative Tips All-around Jealousy
We internalize plenty harmful, heteronormative communications around envy. Those tips can avoid us from working with our envy in a constructive and way that is healthy.
Heteronormativity may be the society-wide idea that some forms of love, intercourse and relationships are better, healthy, and much more â€œnormalâ€ than the others. It provides the theory that heterosexual, hitched, monogamous relationships are desirable, and that transactional, non-traditional, queer, unmarried, non-monogamous relationships are unhealthy and unusual.
Heteronormativity additionally tells us just how our relationships should work. This consists of telling us exactly how we should think and experience envy. Continue reading