Ask Dr. NerdLove: My Boyfriend Is Poly… And I’m Perhaps Maybe Not

Ask Dr. NerdLove: My Boyfriend Is Poly… And I’m Perhaps Maybe Not

The cool difficult facts are, in the event that you can’t manage a poly relationship – rather than everybody can – then it isn’t likely to work. I’ve myself seen individuals whom attempted to be cool with being poly before it was over because it was the only way they could be in a relationship with the person they loved… and it caused everybody no end of grief. Rather than to appear insensitive, you must be usually the one to address your anxieties. The man you’re seeing is right: this really is section of whom he could be, it is one thing you knew moving in, and telling him to alter since you can’t handle it really isn’t fair to him. Continue reading