I think it might be much better if both both you and your spouse spelled out your objectives of her as a group. This may send her the message he are a primary team, and she cannot muscle in on it that you and.
With her alone first, it might enhance the sense she seems to have that you and she are the inner circle, and your husband is the outsider trying to be included if you were to speak.
It appears like a great deal to show and expect from a young child, but i’ve constantly believed – and found – it is we who are unsuccessful. Continue reading